- Fry the peeled and cored pointed gourds over medium heat until they are cooked, but not too soft, approximately 4 minutes. Transfer to a plate lined with tissue paper and let cool. 
- Using your hands or a spatula, thoroughly mix all the other ingredients, except oil, in a bowl. 
- Heat the remaining oil in a fresh pan over medium heat. 
- Add the mixture and cook, stirring continually, until it does not smell of raw spices, approximately 8-10 minutes. 
- Adjust seasonings, remove from heat and let cool. 
- Using the thin end of a spoon, stuff the fried pointed gourds with the paneer stuffing. 
- Garnish with grated coconut. 
- Serve with steamed rice or luchi or as starters.